Welcome to the Nuzzle Challenge

Welcome to the Nuzzle Challenge. Here is a short video to initiate the Challenge. If you are new, we started on May 1 and will continue until the 30th, concluding with a virtual after party on the 31st.

Here's a quick run through of the agenda for the challenge...

May 1-4: Immersive preparation

May 5-11: Week 1 activities

May 12-18: Week 2 activities

May 19-25: Week 3 activities

May 26-30: Week 4 activities

May 31 - Virtual Afterparty

Are you ready to get started? Are you buzzed to be part of this amazing journey, join the community now.

Here's the agenda; you will get to know more and can download a copy when you join the community.

Here are a few tips for the next few weeks...

Are you looking to deepen the connection with your child? Building a strong and healthy relationship with your little one is crucial for their emotional development and overall well-being. Let's explore some effective ways to enhance the bond you share with your child while having a blast!

1. Quality Time is Key

Spending quality time together is essential for nurturing your relationship. Whether it's playing games, reading books, or going for a nature walk, carve out dedicated time to engage in activities that both you and your child enjoy. Research shows that children who spend quality time with their parents exhibit higher levels of self-esteem and perform better academically.

2. Open Communication

Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship. Encourage open and honest communication with your child. Create a safe space where they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Active listening is key to fostering trust and understanding between you and your child.

3. Set Boundaries with Love

Setting boundaries is crucial for teaching children about respect and responsibility. Establish clear and consistent boundaries while showing love and empathy. Boundaries provide a sense of security for children and help them understand the importance of rules and limits.

4. Express Love and Affection

Expressing love and affection is vital for strengthening the parent-child bond. Show your child love through hugs, kisses, and words of affirmation. Research indicates that children who receive affection from their parents have higher levels of self-esteem and exhibit more positive social behaviours.

5. Lead by Example

Children learn by observing the behavior of their parents. Be a positive role model for your child by demonstrating kindness, empathy, and patience. Your actions speak louder than words, so strive to exemplify the values and qualities you wish to instill in your child.

By implementing these strategies, you can cultivate a deeper and more meaningful relationship with your child. Remember, building a strong bond takes time, effort, and patience, but the rewards are immeasurable. Enjoy the journey of growth and connection with your little one!

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These cards are great conversation starters and have facilitated deep, relationship-building conversations with my loved ones. They provide a valuable opportunity to assess, analyze, and reflect on your relationships, allowing you to make necessary changes if needed.

Your Best Buy: if you don’t want to leave knowing your spouse/kids to chance or to trial and error

ATTRACT makes communication about things that would have been awkward bringing up easier and doesn’t allow leaving things to chance to come up, allow for intentionality and openness in a fun way. And it is the way the answer to the same question kind of differs based on the situation of things at the time. It also allows to see changes because talking about things, acting on lessons learnt, coming across the question another time, you can tell if there is improvement in relationship based on first response and the now response. A great buy I would say.

It is a powerful tool for therapists and counsellors.

The ATTRAC.T Model

Some parents find that their inability to engage in meaningful conversations with their kids has made them more detached from their children.
Sadly, they discover this much too late and, for many apparent reasons, find it challenging to maintain a relationship with their adolescent or adult child. A parent's greatest wish for a meaningful relationship with their child is to communicate with them. Where their interaction is unproductive, avoidance will eventually result from conversations that incite resentment, persistent threats, or arguments.

We observe an increase in upset parents and disgruntled teenagers who struggle to coexist with their parents due to their poor communication skills and inability to put forth the effort necessary to comprehend the various stages of their growth. In light of this, some kids would rather be homeless than grow up in what they perceive to be an unpleasant household. While parents feel isolated and undervalued as a result of this cascading effect.

A youngster can feel understood, disputes can be handled, and self-expression is encouraged through meaningful talks. In order to preserve good connections, parents must be particularly interested in understanding their child and master the art of constructive conversations.

The ATTRAC.T Model is, in my opinion is an excellent instrument for fostering connections with children of diverse ages.

I have started using the ATTRAC.T cards in my practice, it is a powerful tool for therapists and counsellors and I recommend it to my clients, particularly those that want to develop meaningful relationships with their children.

When a child is struggling with issues like exams, anxiety, body shaming, feeling judged, peer pressure, bullying, and a host of other things that can affect their nervous system, parents suffer side by side with them. Parental concerns also extend to factors that could cause a dysregulation of the nervous system, like inactivity, sleeplessness, sugary foods and drinks, alienation, and disorderly, chaotic environments.

Memory is a fundamental aspect of human cognition that is shaped by psychological, physiological, and social factors. It allows us to modify our thoughts and actions in the moment. So through fostering a close relationship based on trust, effective communication, and positive role modelling, parents can provide their children with nurturing and aid in the restoration of their neurological systems. They can make conscious effort to engage fully with the child by paying attention and listening to gain information and perspective, thereby able to offer guidance, develop relationship and interact deeper with their child. They can learn about and comprehend circumstances, cultural influences, and social roles of a child's experiences through active listening.

Where a parent struggle to talk about personal issues because they feel it might be evasive, ATTRAC.T cards does the job, using insightful questions to bring out in-depth thoughts to the surface.

Quality questions empower and help us see the way we interpret and evaluate our experiences and can shape how we think and behave. So the use of high quality questions to open meaningful and sometimes delicate conversations makes ATTRAC.T MODEL unique, thereby parents can deepen bond and create ways to influence positive outcomes with their child.

Connector

As a dad for 2 teens this has helped us connect deeper than ever before! The question helps my teens articulate their words and feelings and it’s helped me as dad learn more and change the way I parent my kids. Amazing tool that helps families go deeper

Shocked and a learning curve!

The card on ‘****’ got me and my 10 year old talking and I was shocked to my bones on how much he knew! It was a wake up call for me to not wait any longer and to help guide his mindset on this topic. I feel a sense of shame that I didn’t get to give him the foundations, and his friends and peers got there before me; but now I know better and I am dedicated to teaching him right. Not sure what other misconceptions he may have, so would like to buy the box of 100 cards immediately. Thank you for opening my eyes with this download xx.

Welcome to the Nuzzle Challenge

Here are a few tips for the next few weeks...

1. Quality Time is Key

2. Open Communication

3. Set Boundaries with Love

4. Express Love and Affection

5. Lead by Example

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Here are a few tips for the next few weeks...

1. Quality Time is Key

2. Open Communication

3. Set Boundaries with Love

4. Express Love and Affection

5. Lead by Example

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